May 25, 2010

Hey Family!

How's everyone doing? Good I hope. It sounds like things are starting to get back to normal. And glad to hear that Hawaii isn't the worst place on earth, lol.

And speaking of dogs-- not that we were, but anyway-- you never told me my dog is gone! :-( Of course I was expecting to hear that she was at some point before I got home.

But my week was very, very, very, very alright. :-) Not every week can be Super Amazing, but it was still a great week. The Gila Valley Temple was dedicated this past Sunday, which was broadcast in three different sessions (9am, 12pm, and 3pm) throughout Arizona and parts of New Mexico. It was really neat to see it. It's a very pretty temple. Of course, President Monson was there and it's always great to hear from him. He is a great man with a really great sense of humor. I enjoyed hearing him speak. Elder Moore and I thought it was great. Unfortunately to my knowledge at this point, none of our recently converted members were able to make it. :-( Almost all of them were planning on going, but some were sick, others had things come up, etc.

I thought it was really cool too, that, because there was no regular meeting, so many of the people that we teach really missed going to church. They really wanted to go, and so the fact that there was no church on Sunday disappointed them, and that impressed me. We'll see what happens next Sunday.

It's interesting, too, that we found out that some of our recently converted members are intimidated by the temple. That really shouldn't be the case. We spent a good deal of time trying to resolve some concerns about it, and found that the real problem was that they had misunderstandings about what the temple is actually for. After we shared more about what temples are for, what goes on there, and what it's like, they began to feel much more comfortable. Not very ironically, most non-members of the church have a hard time understanding temples as well. I usually point people with questions about it to mormon.org-- it has a lot of great insights.

Elder Eyering also spoke on the purposes of temples at the dedication. His talk was very good, and I learned a lot from his remarks as well.

We also had the chance to do some service this past week. We helped Robin and Serena get ready to move into their new house just, for example. They're moving just down the road. We helped them clean some junk out of their new yard and haul it off to the dump. (Yeah, garbage dumps don't smell good by the way.)

Other than that we've been trying to find and teach people. So far so good. We still have some great people that we are teaching.

We started teaching a guy named Jaime (it's a spanish name-- pronounced hi-me rather than Jay-me). He's really awesome. He loves the church and has been attending services for a few months now. He's read the Book of Mormon once through, and is currently reading it a second time. He has really great faith and is a great example to his family. And he's only 15 or so. I wish I had been like Jaime at his age. :-)

.....It's not too hot-- it's actually been one of the coolest summers thus far. Yesterday it was only in the 80's. We call that a miracle. :-)

That's about it for here. Things are going well still.
Did you tell Michael he's getting a bad deal? lol. Oh well. BTW: Where is he going to school? BYU-I? I may change my mind yet. lol.

Love you all, and hope you have a great week.

--Uncle Elder Jason Mace
The coolest missionary uncle from
Texas in the Oh-No mission

P.S. So, I just looked over and saw "Black Belt" magazine sitting on the shelf next to me, and I have to say that it's really torturing me. Just wanted to let you know. lol.

May 18, 2010

Hello from Mesa!

(NOTE: the 1st comment is in reference to Camren's fall and trip to the Emergency room the night before)...

How's life for everyone? Sounds like some fun stuff going on. It sounds like Cam is getting toughened up for Isshin-Ryu when I get back. (Dad will get the Joke. And Brother Blake. ;-] ) So anywho. . . .

I did get a package from Alexandra and Elisha (and their mom and dad :-])! It came yesterday-- a delicious looking box of chocolates. I'm way excited. :-) I'll be sending a thank you card today hopefully. But if you would let them know that I got it and I really appreciate it that would be great.

And I was. . . *laugh* . . . really sorry. . . . *laugh* . . . . to hear that Kaydee. . . . *laugh* . . . . got a "B." I was really rooting for her. . . . lol. Hey, I can laugh all I want now, 'cause I haven't taken that class yet. My GPA is still a perfect, fantastic, amazing, unblemished 4.0. Now I just have to figure out how to NOT take a math class. lol. What other majors do they have at BYU-H? lol.

Seriously, though, I was wondering how hard it would be to change my major later on if I wanted to. I'm still not completely sure what I want to do with my life. lol. I've even been thinking about a psychology major lately. I don't know! lol.

So, now to my week.

It was a really neat week. Again! We had a lot of really neat miracles happen. But it was also very stressful.

First of all, we had our baptism scheduled for Saturday, so we had to call the building coordinator to reserve the building and the font to do the baptism. Well, we called him a week or so in advance, left a message, and he never got back to us. I began to stress out a little, as the baptism was getting closer and closer. We finally got a hold of him Thursday morning--two days before the baptism-- and he told us there was an activity on that Saturday. What?! The ward had already announced it and everything! He told us to call the guy in charge of the activity and see if we could work it out with him.

So we called the other guy. And then we called him again. And again. And Again. No response. We began praying for a miracle: that we would get a hold of him and that everything would work out. We looked into other options, did everything that we could, and left the rest up to Heavenly Father. Finally Friday afternoon he called. He told us that we could in fact use the building. Yay!

And so the baptism went well. We got there a little late setting up, so the font didn't get turned on at the right time, so it was still filling a little during the service. But it filled up in time and everything went well. Josh was really excited to get baptized-- he was practically jumping up and down he was so excited. lol. We're really happy for him. The service was really good, and a lot of people turned out for the service.

And, to make the week better, we once again broke my personal record for lessons taught in a week. The work is picking up ridiculously fast, and blessings are pouring in! We have been praying really hard that our lessons would hold, and we've done the best that we could to help those we were teaching to keep their appointments. And they did. Almost all of our appointments went through, which is a huge miracle in and of itself. That was amazing.

And that's still not all. As our week was coming to a close, we realized that we had not found anyone new to teach that week. With the other miracle that I had seen, I began to feel like Enos when he said that, after he had seen so many answers to his prayers "my faith began to be unshaken in the Lord." So we prayed. At the very last hour of the last day of the week, we found Shane. My companion began talking to him, and I was praying as hard as I ever have, and he invited us to come in and teach him. Wow.

The bible dictionary teaches that "Christianity is founded on the greatest of all miracles, the resurrection of our Lord. If that be admitted, other miracles cease to be improbable." I've seen that this week for sure. Nothing is impossible or improbable.

It was a really, really good week. And then to top it all off, yesterday was Zone Conference. That was really good to. The principles that were taught were really good, and well needed. One thing we talked a lot about was miracles. Ironic, huh?

I love you all, and I'm glad to hear things are going well.
--Jason

P.S. Love you Cameron!

May 11, 2010

Above..... Camren talking to Uncle Jason on Mother's day. We loved hearing the squeals!
Jason says..... Ha ha ha. These are my favorite pics. lol

Hola familia!

How is everything going for everyone this week? Sounds like things are going well, from the emails/ phone call. I really liked mom's email, by the way. That was really funny. But everyone aimed comments more at Kaydee than me, lol. Doesn't persuade me much either way, lol. It was really funny to read. Some of the comments were even legit, lol. Well, I'll get you caught up with all the crazy stuff that's happening here.

Now that Elder Coltrin is home (as of Monday Morning) for health reason, I now have a new companion. His name is Elder Moore, and he's from Kaysville (spelling?), Utah. He's been out for 18 months, almost as long as I have been out. He was my baby boys second companion, and he's served in two of my areas (Mesa and Phx), so it's kind of fun to talk about people that we both know. Never really been able to do that much before. :-) This is the SECOND time that I have had three companions in one area. That doesn't happen often, so I guess I'm just that lucky. Or unlucky. (It depends on how you want to look at it.)

Things are going well here. We're working hard and getting a lot of good things done. The most exciting thing right now is the upcoming baptism. Josh was interviewed on Saturday and now is all set to get baptized this coming Saturday at 6:00pm. We are all looking forward to that. Josh is awesome and surprized me with how much he understood and remembered when we went over the questions he would be asked in the baptismal interview. Jason, his dad is working on following him soon after. It's been a great experience so far working with the two of them.

There has also been a lot of progress with all of the other people that we are working with as well. The gospel is a neat thing-- the more you learn, the more you realize you don't know much, and the more you want to learn. I've been able to notice some really amazing changes in people as they follow the invitations that we extend to help them live more like the Savior. A common misconception that I am noticing lately is that people tend to think that God will not be happy with them until they live exactly how he wants. If that were the case, we'd all be in trouble. God loves us regardless, but he wants us to follow him. We taught a guy yesterday named James, and we talked about what it means to repent and about how our Father is there to help us no matter what. It was a great experience.

We've had a lot of great experiences.

As for the Pineapple verses the Potato issue:
I will do whatever Kaydee and Kellie can agree on.
Ha ha ha! :-p As if that would happen, lol. Seriously, though, here are my thoughts on the subject.

I've been thinking about both choices and what might be best. After all that effort (yes, thinking takes a lot of effort for me) I don't feel that it is really going to be that much of a life altering descision. After praying about it and thinking about it, I feel that either one would be a good choice. So, if it would work out, I wouldn't mind going with Kaydee to the great land of Hawaii. If Kaydee feels good about it, then so do I. I would be willing to go there for a few semesters and then transferring over after that.

BTW: I've decided that, after a mission, Chili's might not be a bad job, lol. Tell them to save a spot for Sept.-Dec. :-)

Speaking of, what ever happened to the graphic design job for Kassie?

Thanks family, I love you all.

Uncle Elder Jason Mace
The coolest uncle elder in the Oh-No mission

PS.... Kellie's side note: No prob bro.... So I guess you don't trust my opinion and Idaho? :-P Can we just pretend like you didn't answer yet? I was getting some good stuff ready for that package to send to convince you to go to Idaho :-P

And Jason's response back: You can still change my mind with oreo's. lol.

May 4, 2010

Don't know what happened this week... I don't think the computer was working as he got bumped off right away. But we did get this email.

Hey family!

What's happening?

Does anyone want to change there guesses on transfer news?
Elder Mace is either:
a) in the same area
b) in Scottsdale
c) in Payson
d) in Alberta, Canada

The answer: D! Not really. It's A. I'm in the same area, with the same companion, for another six weeks. Survived that one. Elder Christensen (the Elder Jason trained) is next to me and he tells me that he just got transferred to the Pueblo Zone (where we were companions) and now he's a zone leader there! His 3rd ZL area. Elder Ahurn from the MTC (the guy you met from New York at the missionary mall) is coming to our district to be our district leader. He's coming from being ZL in Pueblo.

We will be making phone calls from the Allen's home. (the members that we live with). We are planning on calling at about 4:00 our time-- don't know what that is for TX or ID. But that's the plan for now.

Last week was a crazy one for us. We were really, really blessed. I know that I say that a lot, but our week was amazing. We found 9 new investigators, and set another three baptismal dates. It was crazy. And their all amazing. Sometimes you get people that are kind of so-so as far as interest goes, but all of them are great. We even have found someone to teach in the Singles Ward. :-) I'm really excited to be sticking around for another transfer to see how all of this turns out.

I've never been happier with the progress of the work that's going on. I've also never been more tired in my life. I can barely type right now-- but it's worth it.

One of our new investigators is actually the daughter of a couple that works in the mission office. They called us up on Monday and told us that they had a granddaughter that wanted to learn about the church. She was really curious because her dad is a member, but she apparently lives with her mom who is Catholic and doesn't know much about religion at all. She had some great questions, and we're excited to keep teaching her.

Another family that we found had just been involved in a really bad crises, to say the least. It caused the family to really pull together and made them wonder about a few things. Their landlord called our bishop, and the bishop asked us to go by. We taught about the plan of Salvation. It was hard to tell what they thought of it all, but they called this morning (it's rare that ANYONE calls us) to set up an appointment. :-) That's always a good sign.

Lots of great things have been happening. And soon the Gila Vally Temple will be dedicated (23 May 2010). That will be really exciting!

Love you all a lot,
Elder Jason Mace
Your favorite missionary that's STILL on a bike even though it's warming up. . . fast. . . :-p

April 27, 2010

Sorry, but with everything going on the last few weeks, this letter did not get posted. Email is short as we sent Jason a ton of pictures of the wedding and baby that he went through.....

Hey family!

How's everything going?

Things here are good. I didn't get a message about Kassie's wedding happening, but I did wear the blue tie anyway. Everyone thought the tie was way cool, by the way. In fact, it blew my companions tie out of the water in the "which tie is better?" competition. :-) All votes were for me. :-p

Anyway, how is everything else out there? The kid-o's are are growed up. It's hard to recognize some of them from the pictures. They don't look as little as they used to. I, on the other hand, still look like a twelve year old with a name tag. Oh well. And I haven't gained a stinking pound since I've been gone. What kind of garbage is that, huh?

It's starting to get hot, here. Yesterday it was around 93-94 degrees out side. You say, that's not too bad. Puh! It's a completely different sun out here. This one blinds you-- when your looking away from it, even-- bakes you, and beats you to pieces. Yup, time for me to get transferred up North. Transfers are next week. Who's pulling for me? I have three transfers left, so it's interesting. I could get transferred now and spend 4 1/2 months in my next area, or I could stay the whole 6 months here are spend 3 months in my next area. Transfer guesses and prophesies are always welcome.

And I finally got into BYU-I, huh? Yippy! . . . . did. . . . Kaydee get in yet. . ? Did I beat her? Not that I care. . . . .

So yesterday was a really good day. We planned out our day Sunday night, and we saw we had absolutely NO appointments planned for the day. :-( But we planned and as we worked the next day some neat things happened.

First, we found two new investigators. James and his brother Justin. James actually came to church on Sunday. He's looking for a church to go to. Well, we had talked to his brother a while before that, and went by to talk to him again. Turns out they live together. :-) They came outside and we had a great lesson with them. (Yes, outside. I was facing the sun. Need I say more?) They're awesome. They actually already knew a little bit about the church and what we believe.

And then we set two baptismal dates. I think I mentioned Josh and Jason last week. Well, Josh is set for the 15th of May, and Jason for the 29th of May. We wanted to do both together, but they thought separate would be better. Right now we have 6 baptismal dates set, all for the month of May. It should be a great month if I'm around for it.

The past week has been really great, too. The work is continuing to pick up. Last week I think we taught more lessons than I have ever taught before. We're seeing some great blessings as the work continues to pick up.

Most importantly (not really) we played golf this morning. Not miniature golf either. The real stuff. I learned that I'm not going to be signing up for the PGA tour when I come home, but it was a lot of fun.

Great things are happening here. I hope things are going as well for you all out there. I love you all.
I've gotta go. I still have time, but my rides ready to leave. lol. If it's not one thing it's another. lol. See you all later. And Phone calls are coming up! ish. I don't really know when that is . . .

--Jason

April 20, 2010

Today was another sad email we had to send to Jason as we learned last night that Joe's dad passed away unexpectedly. So today was spent chatting with him about that, but here is the news from the mission field....

Wow. That must be hard for everyone. . . . I'm praying for their family, and I hope everything goes well. I don't really know what to say, other than please keep me updated, as usual. I'm really greatful for God's plan for His families. I've talked to some really stubborn people out here, and I'll say something like "our message is that families can be together forever" and some respond with a quick "no they can't." What a sad view of eternity that must be. Elder Holland once said Heaven would not be Heaven without my family. Luckily God understands that, and has a plan to make heaven a real heaven.
Glad your doing good, Joe. From all three emails I've gotten from you, you're a'ight. :-) Ask Kassie, that's a good thing.

Hey family!

Again a lot has happened out there. Again, I'm praying for everyone.

This last week has been a great blessing for our area. Our mission president asked us to focus on teaching lessons to investigators with a member present this week. Wow is that hard to do. There are three things that make that difficult 1) we have to have appointments set up with everyone in advance 2) we have to find someone to come with us 3) the investigator has to actually show up for the appointment.

Usually we do okay with that, but the past couple of weeks we've been struggling. In fact, just teaching investigators has been really hard. I spent a lot of time praying for help in meeting that goal. By some miracle, we managed to get a lot of appointments set up. Yay! And we managed to find a lot a members who were available for lessons! Yay! And, best of all, almost all of our lessons went through. What an amazing week it's been. I can't remember the last time I taught so many lessons in a week. It really was amazing.

And, on top of that, we found some great new people to teach. We didn't find any of them ourselves, so they are obviously a blessing and a miracle.

One is the father of Josh, a 13 year old that we have been teaching for a few weeks. Jason, his father, noticed the change in his son and finally contacted us and ask us to come over and meet with him. He came to church on Sunday and really loved it.

Another is a really nice family where his dad is a member but doesn't come to church, the wife is not a member and wasn't very interested in the church, and the kids really love church and want to be baptized. The parents finally gave in and let us come over and talk with the kids to answer some of their questions. Well, the kids turned out to be kind of quiet. But the mom started asking a lot of great questions. They are a really great family.

We've also been getting a TON of referrals from the Easter Pageant. We have a lot to contact, so we'll have to get on that. :-) Our area is really being blessed all of a sudden. Work seems to come and go in waves-- it would be nice if it just kept rapidly going up, and stopped dropping every once in a while. But then I probably wouldn't appreciate these times a wonderful chaos.

Do you remember Shawn and Michelle? Shawn needed to quit smoking to prepare for his baptism on the 1st of May. He had to quit smoking be Saturday. Well, he had been trying and trying, and Saturday came and he still hadn't quit, and then he hurt his knee, and some other medical problems (nothing major) have popped up. Some would say that it's a terrible thing, but I feel that it's a blessing in disguise. He hasn't been able to smoke since his quit smoking day, even if he wanted to. Go figure. Heavenly Father is brilliant. And Shawn is doing good.

Anyway, that's about is for this week.

Lots of love from Oh-No (AZ), and I pray for you all as well.
Jason

and here is a family picture we sent to Jason....


Thank you for sending that picture. That one really means a lot to me. Thanks.

April 13, 2010

Obviously Jason got online the second the library opened this morning as he knew there was suppose to be news and pictures of a new nephew. And he was right. Tons of pictures and information were waiting for him. You can tell by his letter that he is a little shocked and over whelmed. Enjoy!

I'M ON LOOKING AT PICKS OF JASON XIII

Yay! I have a little nephew now! Or a big nephew now. I'm not a fan of the nickname big mac, though, even if it is CAM backwards. lol. Who like MickyDees anyway?

Start teaching him to walk so he'll be ready to kick when I get back. Thanks for the emails and pics. I still expect many more.

But wait!

What do you mean that's his final name? What happened to Jason XIII Nathan IV Barnard? I thought we all agreed on that. Fine! I'll go with it. But I'm still calling him Jason jr.

--Uncle Elder Mace

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Hi Jason,

It's great to be a Grandpa, how is it being an Uncle for the first time?

Dad
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Wonderful. Can't wait to see the baby boy. :-) (Five months-- not to be trunky, but under the circumstances I think some trunky-ness is acceptable.)
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He should be walking by next week, probably running the week after that.
Maybe flying jump side kicks the week after that, we don't want to rush Camren to much yet, lets break him into Taekwondo slowly.
You can start the nun chuck training when you get home.
Dad
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That's the spirit dad!

And Kellie-- so what if he can't count that high. I can barely count that high, but it's okay. Dora can teach him-- in English AND spanish!
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(weekly email)
Hey family!

I can't think well enough to actually send a decent email, so you'll have to deal with the few jumbled thoughts that come out.

We actually did have a great week, but nothing as exciting as yours.

Our mission did great with talking to people. If you remember from my last email, our mission was working on that. And we saw a lot of miracles. the goal was 20 per comp. per day, and we had an average of 19 a day-- soooooo close! Elder Coltrin and I are especially happy with our efforts this past week. We talked to as many people as was humanly possible for us-- 257 people.

We also saw some great blessings come from that. We've been blessed with many new people to teach and they are doing great again. Our night tonight will be crazy with appointments-- we have to do an exchange to go to all of them. We haven't seen that in our area in a while.

Sister Porter, for example, mentioned that she had a friend who could use a visit. I didn't think much of it, but I asked about the friend and got the information from her. When we went by, we thought she was a member-- she had a stack of church books on her table. Everything from Gospel Principles to Preparing to enter the Holy Temple. Turns out that she has a nephew that is a member and he has been telling her about the church. We had a really great conversation with her. Her name is Amy, by the way.

And we've seen a lot of other things happen that just have to be blessings, because even in missionary work this stuff doesn't happen often.

I'll tell you more about the specifics later on, but it's really been great.

Love you all!
--Jason
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Sorry family! But I've got to get going. It's that time again.

Oh, BTW do you know a Gary Ray @ 4318 Egret Dr., Seabrook TX? He's related to someone out here. Is he in the ward?

Jason
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April 7, 2010

Hey family!

Still no baby, huh? . . . . You do realize that I can't wait forever, right? lol. And still nothing from BYU-I, huh? Maybe they're playing hard to get. Kaydee should send them some chocolate or something. lol. :-D Well, anyway. How is everything going? Good I hope.

First of all, I got to work at the Easter Pageant this last week on Thursday and Saturday night. That was a lot of fun. As missionaries we walk around and talk to people, just like at the Christmas lights. Although this can be a lot more akward because people are sitting down, so people on the ends of rows get talked to a lot, and people in the middle don't unless a missionary wants to climb over tons of people to get there. And it's usually really crowded. There are usually 10 to 20 thousand people that attend, with the record being higher than that. Anyway, it was a lot of fun. I found a few people that were interested in meeting with missionaries, including a guy who spoke only Spanish. Don't ask me how I did it, but I managed to get his information for Spanish speaking missionaries to come by. I WISH I SPOKE SPANISH!

Conference was amazing. And funny. There were some good jokes, especially in Elder Hollands talk. "You wouldn't invite a burglar into your house, serve him tea and crumpets, and then show him where the silverware is. . . . You shouldn't be serving tea anyway. . . " And, as always, there were some GREAT insights. It seemed like the main theme was strengthening the family. Isn't it strange how all of the talks blend together so well when no one is assigned a topic and they don't coordinate their topics either? They all just speak as they feel inspired and all of the talks just blend together beautifully as Heavenly Father speaks to us through them and the spirit that touches our hearts as they speak.

Now, if you're observant you'll notice that I said that we were at the Pageant Saturday night. . . . That is during Priesthood session. I was distraught when I found out that we would be missing it! Priesthood session is the best session! I love it so much. But someone had to go to the Pageant. Well, luckily for us, they re-broadcast it for those who participated in the Pageant at 3:30 the next day-- just after the Sunday afternoon session of Conference. So I got to watch it. The funny thing is, that is when the Earth quake hit. We didn't feel anything, but it knocked out the Satellite for a few minutes. . . . I guess a few people-- including our mission president-- felt it. I didn't find out about it until the next day, though. lol. I'm slow to get news.

And we had Zone conference yesterday. Those are always good. That's also the reason why I am getting on Wednesday rather than Tuesday. We focused a lot on unity, which I suspect is partially in preparation for the new mission president coming in July.

Also the mission is focusing on talking to more people. Each companionship is suppose to talk to 140 people a week as we go to/from appointments. That's not a problem for us, but a lot a missionaries don't do it, so they are having us call in every night with how many people we've talked to. So far, in two days Elder Coltrin and I have talked with 91 people. :-)

Our drought with new investigators has finally ended as well! We found a few more this last week thanks to referrals from members and the Easter Pageant. Life is great!

And, best of all, we had a wedding in our area last night. Yes, you read that right. There was a wedding. We had two people that have been living together for twelve years that want to get baptized. They know that they have to be living the standards that Christ taught in order to be ready to make that covenant with God, and so last night they finally tied the knot and were married by the bishop in a very small but beautiful service. It was really neat to be a part of that. There will probably never be another time in my life when I'll get to be a part of all of these things again. Shawn, the newly married man, will be baptized May 1st, and Michelle, his wife, will be baptized shortly after. (I told you about them a while back, but I misspelled his name, in case you are confused. . . . )

Oh, Great news! I actually gained like five pounds so far in the 19 months I've been out! :-(

Yup. It's been really good so far. The work is constantly moving faster and faster, and it's all I can do to keep up! I remember when I first got in the mission, to have 70 baptisms in a transfer was impossible! Now, at the end of last transfer we had 132 baptisms, and everyone was disappointed because that is really low now. We are really being blessed with miracles, and the missionaries that are coming out of the MTC now are way better than the ones that were coming out with me. It's amazing to watch the work progress.

My easter was good. Mostly I was watching conference. One of our Ward Mission Leaders invited us over to his home for dinner. That was really nice. They are a great family!Yup, I got the pacakge! Thank you BTW

Well, I've got to go. I love you all and I hope your next week goes good. I look forward to baby pictures! Keep me posted! I really want to know the second he's born!

Love you all,
Elder Jason Mace
The coolest, best-est, non-Kung-Fu-Panda-Bellied missionary in the whole state of Oh-No.

PS... I just wanted to point out that my favorite-oldest-sister Kassie hasn't written to her favorite younger brother in a while. . . . Not to point fingers >>> or mention Kassie's name. . . . . lol.